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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

Holiday Self-Care
In my ten years as a therapist, I’ve noticed a pattern among my trans clients, based on the time of year they begin facing their true selves and taking steps to change their lives. Those who come to see me during the late summer/early fall months bump up against the fact that by starting [...]

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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

My degree is an M.A. in Counseling Psychology, with a specialization in Transpersonal Psychology. I call myself a holistic psychotherapist. Many people have asked me what transpersonal psychology is, and what “holistic psychotherapy” means.
Transpersonal psychology is the fourth major wave of psychology. First came psychoanalysis, developed by Freud. In a nutshell, psycho-analysts (and psychodynamic therapists [...]

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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

During the first stages of my transition, I saw three therapists. The first was clearly out of her depth, the second was mediocre but thought she was doing a good job, and the third understood pre-transition issues much better than the other two. None was trans. However, I don’t believe a therapist has to be [...]

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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

My brother-in-law laments for the 1950s, wanting a return to the days when “men were men and women were women and everyone knew where they stood.” Despite our general disagreement on nearly every topic possible, paradoxically, I know that life would be much easier for post-transition transsexuals if gender roles were still as narrowly-defined and [...]

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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

In early 2002, the question arose on an academic e-mail list I subscribe to, “How can I respond when a colleague questions my decision to have surgery, her argument being that trans surgeries are no different than liposuction, breast augmentation or any other form of body image-based cosmetic surgery? Her point is that women don’t [...]

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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

I have often been asked (by trans and cisgender people alike) my opinion of the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care (SOC) for appropriately and effectively working with trans people. I have mixed feelings about the SOC, in any of its various iterations. (You can go to the WPATH website to read the current version of [...]

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by Reid Vanderburgh MA, LMFT

In the late 1990s, I wrote an article for a queer newspaper in which I said that I thought transition was the most difficult, life-changing process a person could undertake willingly in life. A friend of mine read this article, and commented that she thought the decision to become a parent rivaled transition as a [...]